Getting Back Your Old Love / Timing of LOA

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Sometimes there are very general questions that I answer knowing that it may benefit another to view the response. This is a typical question. Please enjoy my response.

The question was:

“Can I use the LOA to get my love back? Can I use the law of attraction to attract a particular person to love me? How can I do that?..One thing I’m sure of now is that we’ll be together a again.When and How? I really don’t know.
Also, how can I use the law of attraction to get what i want to be done WHEN i want it to be done???
I just started with The Law Of Attraction two weeks ago, but I wanna learn it fast and master it fast.”

My response was:

Hello Dear Friend,

You have always used the Law of Attraction, or rather it has been working WITH you all along. You may have become aware of it and it’s function 2 weeks ago but you have already been “doing” it and using “it” unknowingly.

To get a lover back: Do you suppose that this lover and yourself, may not be a match? A “match” means being alike in vibration. If you have separated it is because you are not in the same place both literally and figuratively. In order to get someone to come to you, you must match their vibration. In order to match someone’s vibration you must either raise or lower your own vibration. If you come to find that you must lower your vibration in order to match someone else, it is NEVER worth it. You will be sacrificing everything (your purpose in life) and this is not a good idea. If this person is vibrating more positively than you, then surely raise your own vibration. This may not bring you the same exact person unless you become a mirror match (someone most alike you in vibration), but you will attract someone who is. This new match will be much more satisfying and pleasing to you whether you realize it at this moment or not.

If you want to make something happen at a certain time: One thing you can do is set a date in your prayer, notes, intention, spell…. however you are performing your offering of wanting to the universe or God, or whomever you believe to be the One. You must realize that the timing is not always going to be exact only because you would have to monitor too many things and that is not your job. Your job is to ASK. The result is: All is GIVEN in time. We live linearly, but all is happening NOW. When it happens it will also be NOW. Therefore you must line up with the ASKING not the TIMING. That means you must focus on what you are asking and be at one with that subject. Become it. Be certain of it’s coming and of it’s arrival. Do not doubt. Do not rely on the date because it will spawn doubt. Or if it doesn’t spawn a shred of doubt even in your sub conscious, there you have total control. This takes practice and ultimate belief and commitment. Once you are in alignment you are THERE. It is HERE. Either way you look at it, it’s the same thing. But in the Big Picture, YOU are going TO what you want vibrationally, it isn’t really coming to YOU. That’s right. It’s the other way around. Hence you come together. In perfect, ideal, absolute timing.

If you want more information, or help, please contact me. I do readings, create spells and affirmations and can assist you.

Your Muse,
Rayna

Comments (6)

 

  1. Carol says:

    For me, if I wanted to attract a guy back… by the time the universe brought him to me I’d be thinking “What was I thinking when I liked him??!!”

    What I mean is, instead of pining over an ex-lover and feeling bad about it, work on loving *yourself* more and more and then he will come back.

    I’ve also been able to bump into the street to men I wanted to meet again through visualization.

  2. nmxfairy says:

    I thought I couldn’t live without my old boyfriend, but I realize that I will do so much better. Me time! Thank you!

  3. Anna says:

    Hi Rayna! I love your magazine. I really liked this article. It was like you were speaking to me.

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